My Journey

My Journey

A renewed sense of purpose…

When I was in thirties, my opening line when describing myself would have been: “I am a loving wife and a mother of three…”. Somehow, that opening line came to define me almost completely, whilst the lines that came next seemed rather less easy to define.

I look back at this description of myself in my thirties, and think about how I might have described myself in my twenties – before the children and husband. Surely my sense of self wouldn’t change so drastically once I became a mum, or a wife… Right? I’m still that girl, aren’t I? Older, hopefully wiser, but deep inside still fundamentally her. Same energy – slightly less of it, maybe? Same attitude – a little more refined, perhaps? But what could possibl cause a shift so significant, that I’d abandon all of the definitions with which I could’ve described my younger self?

Was I lost in my thirties? I don’t think so. I was simply in a different place; a place of “flux”. There were so many different plates all spinning at once – motherhood and marriage to name just a couple – that to quantify who I was then simply felt, unconsciously, too damned hard.

I’d fallen into the habit of defining myself by who I was serving – not who I was.

When I turned forty, I experienced a conscious and significant shift: I wanted to be me again, and I needed to make this the decade to serve myself, to find myself, and to ultimately redefine myself.

So now, three years into my forth decade, I at last know who I am again: a strong, resilient woman, with a renewed sense of purpose that doesn’t take away from my sense of self. I love my job, and I embrace life; I am positive about my future; I embrace each day with awe and wonder. And with every day that passes, I feel content and satisfied that I did my best to help those around me – people I care about; people who need and value my help and support.

I have a smile on my face now. Not just because I’m happy to serve , but because I’m happy with me . At long last, I finally have all I need to make me happy.

“As a naturally anxious woman who’s been through a fair few difficult emotional situations over the years, I’d built up a defensive resilience and complacency. However, having spoken with Sarah, over time, I built up my confidence and self-worth.

She could see something in me that I couldn’t, at the time, see myself.”

- Debbie

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Thank you for visiting my website.

I'm hopeful that, when reading through my pages and my blog posts, an inner voice has woven itself into a connectedness between us. Maybe something I've written resonates with you, or you feel that one of my experiences could easily have been you. Or perhaps, you've simply read something that's opened up a bucketload of emotions you thought you'd dealt with...

Connect with me. Reach out. We'll take a journey down your life's many possible paths, and together we'll discover where those explorations lead us.

(Coaching sessions can take place in person, via video conferencing (FaceTime, Zoom, Skype etc.), or by telephone)

Let's Connect !

Thank you for visiting my website.

I'm hopeful that, when reading through my pages and my blog posts, an inner voice has woven itself into a connectedness between us. Maybe something I've written resonates with you, or you feel that one of my experiences could easily have been you. Or perhaps, you've simply read something that's opened up a bucketload of emotions you thought you'd dealt with...

Connect with me. Reach out. We'll take a journey down your life's many possible paths, and together we'll discover where those explorations lead us.

(Coaching sessions can take place in person, via video conferencing (FaceTime, Zoom, Skype etc.), or by telephone)

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